Jill and Allen's Health, Wealth, Beauty & Wellbeing Tips — LOVE POTION

SELF LOVE (Heart Chakra)

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Self love is important to living well. It influences who you choose for a partner, the image you project at work, and how you cope with problems in your life. It is extremely important to your welfare and you should know how to bring more of it into your life so that you can start attracting people and circumstances to you that will support your wellbeing. Self love is not simply a state of feeling good. It is a state of appreciation for yourself that grows from actions that support your physical, psychological and spiritual growth. Self love is dynamic....

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FORGIVENESS (Heart Chakra)

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Forgiveness is the release of resentment or anger. Forgiveness doesn’t mean reconciliation. One doesn't have to return to the same relationship or accept the same harmful behaviours from an offender. Forgiveness is vitally important for the mental health of those who have been victimized. It propels people forward rather than keeping them emotionally engaged in an injustice or trauma. Forgiveness has been shown to elevate mood, enhance optimism, and guard against anger, stress, anxiety, and depression. However, there are scenarios in which forgiveness is not the best course for a particular person. Sometimes a victim of sexual abuse becomes more...

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BITTERNESS - The Destroyer Within (Heart Chakra)

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All bitterness starts out as hurt with left-over feelings and questions around ‘Did the person who provoked the hurt have malicious intent? Or a grave injustice toward you? Or how could they have wronged you?’ We are likely to experience anger and resentment whenever we conclude that another has seriously abused us. Left to fester, that righteous anger eventually becomes the corrosive ulcer that is bitterness. Bitterness is a chronic and pervasive state of smouldering resentment. It is one of the most destructive and toxic of human emotions. If we repeatedly ruminate over how we’ve been victimised, “nursing” wrongs may...

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JEALOUSY (Heart Chakra)

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Jealousy is a combination of fear and anger. Fear of losing something and anger that someone is "moving in on" something that you feel belongs only to you.Jealousy is a warning sign that informs us of the existence of danger, losing the affection of our loved ones due to the presence of another person. It is usually accompanied by the feelings of abandon and exclusion, living through a very painful situation. But this sign, if we learn to process it and understand it, can be very enriching. One can feel jealous about many things, but above all it is related...

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FRIGIDITY (SACRAL CHAKRA)

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Frigidity is broadly used to refer to a low libido – a woman’s sex drive. This term is often used incorrectly to describe a woman who is emotionally cold or does not respond to her partner’s sexual advances. A lack of sexual desire can be psychologically embedded in a person’s subconscious and linked to greater issues that should be addressed or discussed. In some cases, women may experience low libido and refuse or avoid sexual intimacy or they may endure it without being able to reach orgasm, finding little pleasure in the act. In other cases, women may have difficulty...

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