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Be Happy - Happiness Is The Secret

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Happiness, Now there's a word. What is it? To be honest, I don't think it can be that closely defined. I think it differs from person to person and only that person will know the answer to the question: "Am I happy?" I also think that we have somehow come to expect that 'happiness' is a  God given right and we should all be 'happy', all of the time. Let me tell you, that is an unrealistic expectation. S-hit happens. People die. People get hurt. People get sick. Wars happen that shouldn't. Wrongs get done.  We all have bad days. It...

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Are you Lonely Tonight? LONELINESS - Heart Chakra

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Loneliness can be an overwhelming feeling of emptiness, combined with feelings of separation and or isolation from the world. A person may feel lonely not only when they are in need of connecting to others but also when there is a sense disconnection, rejection and alienation from others. Some people may find it difficult or even impossible to have any form of meaningful human contact. They may believe they are different from others or may believe people are indifferent to them. Loneliness and being alone are not the same. For example, a person can be in a group with others...

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ANGER (Heart Chakra)

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Feelings of anger arise due to how we interpret and react to certain situations. Everyone has their own triggers for what makes them angry, but some common ones include situations in which we feel: threatened or attacked deceived frustrated powerless to a problem, situation or person invalidated or treated unfairly disrespected People can interpret situations differently, so a situation that makes you feel very angry may not make someone else feel angry at all (for example, other reactions could include annoyance, hurt or amusement). But just because we can interpret things differently, it doesn't mean that you're interpreting things 'wrong'...

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SELF CRITICISM (Solar Plexus Chakra)

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Self criticism, or the act of pointing out perceived flaws, can be a healthy way to increase your self-awareness and achieve personal growth, but it may also prove a barrier to your self-esteem and peace of mind. Self-criticism may often help facilitate the process of learning from your mistakes and can also be helpful when you attempt to overcome areas of weakness or unwanted habits. A high level of self criticism that prevents you from taking risks, asserting opinions, or believing in your own abilities may be unhelpful or detrimental to your wellbeing. Comparative self criticism - Comparative self-criticism typically involves...

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CONFIDENCE AND SELF ESTEEM (Solar Plexus Chakra)

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Self esteem is essentially how we feel about ourselves. It is the value, the worth, the appreciation and respect we have for ourselves as individuals. It is the measure of our self worth and our self love. Confidence is primarily based in our evaluation of our abilities. It reflects how we do things. Confidence relates more to our actions, our skills, our talents, our abilities. It is the overall sense of our capabilities to accomplish our goals. Self esteem then is a reflection of how I treat myself and confidence is a reflection of how I do things.To raise your...

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